“23”: Updated (15/23 complete) with only 18 days to go

1. Leave my job at IB

2. Get a new job (and love it)


4. Meet and hang out with BlakeThis might be the one thing on my list I’m more excited about than the fact that I actually was in Australia. I’ve known Blake for a couple of years now and in that time, he’s become one of my best friends. We met on tumblr, so it’s been a dream of mine to meet my best-friend-across-the-world. We met and then eventually, we hung out— it was the best. Highlight of my week in Sydney, hands down.

5. Get my first tattoo — I’ve at least picked what I’d like my first one to be (officially)

6. Hang out with Jessica (in NYC, NJ, or Chicago) again, without the anxiety this time

7. Visit California (esp. San Clemente & Kristen Stewart’s handprints @ TCL)Ok, this one’s a stretch, but I did make it to Cali. Granted, it was just a layover at LAX. But I paid for the flights and I was there, so…. the “esp.” will just have to make it onto my next bucket list.

8. Get paid to write

9. Go on vacation with Amanda — Our New Years Eve trip turned into a bit of a vacation… it’s a stretch, but we did spend 5 days together + 7 hours driving!

10. Run a 5K (with a few stops at most)I did the Color Run in Chicago on June 8th and even though we technically walked the entire thing (with a few bursts of running at most), it was the most fun I’ve had at a 5K and that’s an accomplishment itself.

11. Do/try something new/spontaneous. Anything.I went scuba diving on a total whim and it was the most unreal, thrilling 45 minutes of my life.

12. Learn something new — So far: calligraphy and how to make guacamole. And guess what? I’ve had so much fun with both of these things that I was reminded of how great it feels to learn something new. Let’s see what else I can add here before next month.

13. Meet someone famous (actor/musician/writer/athlete)I met Sophia Bush on November 6th!

14. Meet someone that impacts my life in a positive wayI’ve been waiting to cross this one off, because it’s a big one. But between the people I met in Australia, my dear friend Blake, and the guy I dated for a few months, my life has been impacted in a positive way.

15. Impact someone’s life in a positive way

16. Fall in love (with a person, place, or hobby)Get this: triple whammy. I fell in love with my dive instructor in the Great Barrier Reef while scuba diving with him. Ok, mostly joking about that. But I did manage to fall in love with a place on my trip: Sydney. This city is beautiful and it was ridiculously hard to say goodbye.

17. Finally finish my Invisalign treatment

18. Man up and get my wisdom teeth pulled

19. Go on a date (and maybe a second?!)

20. See the Blackhawks play in Nashville OR see the Western Sydney Wanderers play in MelbourneThis item is no longer possible, BUT I’m giving myself another exception here: I saw Hamish Blake IN REAL LIFE perform in a comedy show, which let’s be honest, was way more exciting for me than a soccer game would have been.

21. Do something for myselfI put all of my money into my trip to Australia and while it was a crazy thing to do financially, it was a gift to myself. I’ve been struggling to focus on where I want to head on my career path, so I took a month off to see what else is out there. My month abroad was SO different from the first time I traveled abroad alone. It was a new experience to explore on my own, create my own schedule, take a trip with strangers who became friends, and re-connect with old friends. It’s not about the money at all. It’s about the fact that I went on an actual adventure that has made me appreciate everything I have and everyone I know so much more than I did before. And now I feel more energized to figure out where I need to go from here.

22. Read a total of 23 books

23. Find a new favorite spot in Chicago

#10: The Color Run was an absolute blast and I’ve already come up with a team name for next year. Even though I really wanted to dedicate myself to running, it’s just not my thing. No matter how hard I try to train myself. We walked, we got colored, we had an awesome time. And it gave me an excuse to hang out with my best friends downtown on a Sunday morning. Win win.

#12: I’ve only dabbled in calligraphy thus far, but I’m not going to quit anytime soon. It’s surprisingly soothing! I turn on music, scribble out some lyrics, and see where things go. I’ve even tried watercolor calligraphy (not so smooth). Also learned how to make homemade guacamole and it was a hit with the family, so I think it’s just a sign that I should keep on learning in the kitchen while I’m at it!
Itty Bitty Reflection
Things are winding down and I’m realizing it definitely won’t be possible to complete everything, but looking back at what I have accomplished is exciting. And I feel like I didn’t let this year slip by like I have with previous years. Often times, I found myself rushing to turn another year older. I’ve embraced 23 and took the reins for a change.

In the spirit of bucket listing, I’ve already begun writing my “25 by 25” list (which I’ll hold off on posting until July). It’s in the works and even if I don’t finish everything on that list either, I’m actually looking forward to seeing what I’ll push myself to do. What improvements I’ll make. How I’ll grow as a person within a year. I’ve had my fair share of doubtful moments whilst 23, but seeing my next list come together already is already proving to myself that I’m motivated to move, change, grow, learn, etc.

On that note, the final “23” post will go up in about 18 days, when I’m officially 24 years old. How many more things can I scratch off before then? Well, I guess we’ll just have to wait and see!